I’m a minimalist at heart. The walls in our home are white and bare. Our house is sparsely decorated and furnished only with essentials. And my minimalist philosophy is most evident in the kitchen. I tend to be drawn towards doing the bare minimum especially in things that I am NOT good at, cooking being one of them. My approach has been to eat for health and frugality, and if we are able to, for sustainability and justice. Because these are what I have deemed to be of utmost importance.
But lately, I’m slowly coming to a different conclusion. That mindful eating is not enough. There’s something MAJOR that is missing from the picture. And that something major is pleasure.
Consider this:
- About 40-60% of our metabolic power at any meal – meaning our ability to digest, assimilate and calorie burn – comes from something called the Cephalic Phase Digestive Response – which is a scientific term for taste, pleasure, aroma, satisfaction, and our visuals of a meal.Which means when we only consider the health and frugal aspects of eating, as well as the sustainability and the justice of it all and leave out what I call the pleasure factors which in turn shapes our subjective experience of eating, we cut down our metabolizing rate by 40-60%. That’s a lot.
- Our bodies are not properly conditioned to digest when we are under stress. And your body perceives distraction as stress. So when we are eating while watching T.V. or emailing, the simple act of attending to two stimuli at once lowers our metabolism drastically. When we are cooking and we are under stress (i.e. figuring out what to do with a toddler yanking on your leg), same thing. When we are chowing down our food so we can do the next thing, same thing. When we have stressful conversations over our meals or when our conversations distract us from paying attention to the flavors and delight of our food, same thing.
The Italians certainly know the Art of Soulful Eating. This is part of what the author Elizabeth Gilbert of the book, Eat, Pray and Love discovered went she went to Italy after her divorce (haven’t seen the movie but have read the book awhile back!). They take time to prepare elaborate meals, with antipasti, insalata, primo, secondi and dolci. They eat a meal for a long time with others, enjoying not just the food but the entire experience as well. They welcome wine and laughter and most of all, pleasure to grace their time at the table. An everyday feast to look forward to.
So here’s my desire: that I can truly be a nourishing cook, that I can learn how to make really delicious food that smells great, looks great, and tastes great without compromising the health, frugality, sustainability and justice issues that I try to consider.
How’s a culinary-challenged mama supposed to do that? Move to a countryside in Italy (or France)?
Maybe. Maybe.






















